Resilience, Recovery and Chronicity

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by Richard Bolstad
(find the full post at Transformations.net.nz)

resilience-bend-or-breakWhen a traumatic event occurs, a neural network is set up in the brain with memories of the event (VAKOGAd), instructions about attempted responses (K), a time/place coding (Hippocampus) and an emergency rating (Amygdala).

If the emergency rating is low enough, a pattern of Resilience occurs, where the person is distressed by the event but able to keep functioning normally.

If the rating is high enough then at least for some time a PTSD-style response will occur and the person will have severe difficulty performing normal daily functions.

In the case of a PTSD-style response, most people will gradually edit the neural network over the next couple of months so that it no longer interferes with everyday functioning, a pattern called Recovery. Some people have a pre-existing thinking style which makes recovery difficult (eg a pattern of constantly checking in case something bad is about to happen again) and they will then continue to have problems long term, a pattern called Chronicity.

Resilience is pretty much the core successful human response to disaster that NLP seeks to remedially create (in fact NLP goal-setting, reframing and dissociation are used to create resilience). Note that research show that resilience is not a set personality trait so much as a set of actions you can choose to take.

From an NLP perspective we can use a variety of techniques to assist a person move through trauma.

The American Psychological Association says research suggests “10 Ways to Build Resilience”, which are:

(1) maintaining good relationships with close family members, friends and others;
(2) to avoid seeing crises or stressful events as unbearable problems;
(3) to accept circumstances that cannot be changed;
(4) to develop realistic goals and move towards them;
(5) to take decisive actions in adverse situations;
(6) to look for opportunities of self-discovery after a struggle with loss;
(7) developing self-confidence;
(8) to keep a long-term perspective and consider the stressful event in a broader context;
(9) to maintain a hopeful outlook, expecting good things and visualizing what is wished;
(10) to take care of one’s mind and body, exercising regularly, paying attention to one’s own needs and feelings and engaging in relaxing activities that one enjoys.

At the 2017 Australian Conference Richard will be sharing *NEW* NLP tools and techniques to help create and build resilience.

 



Based in New Zealand, Richard Bolstad is a Master Trainer of NLP, Author and Psychotherapist. His central interest is in linking NLP to wider issues of spiritual devleopmet and conflict resolution. In addition to training NLP, Richard teaches Hypnosis, Transforming Communication and Taoist Healing Techniques.

Richard is a speaker at the ABNLP 2017 Australian NLP Conference taking place in Sydney, 25-26 February.

 

Meta Programs and the LAB Profile®: What’s the difference?

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by Shelle Rose Charvet
(find the orignal post at SuccessStrategies.com)

Since 1998 I have been certifying consultants, trainers, coaches and executives from around the world to use the LAB Profile (Language & Behaviour Profile) in business and other organizations. Highly-skilled people attend this program because they know it will dramatically increase their ability to help clients solve difficult problems as well as create a unique opportunity for their careers.

There are now over 300 LAB Profile Consultant/Trainer Certification graduates from around the world. “How strange,” I thought, given that NLP is used so much by trainers, facilitators, consultants and coaches, even if they don’t mention NLP. “Why haven’t more people been using the LAB Profile and contributing to the ever-increasing knowledge base, especially since the LAB Profile has become the accepted way of teaching Meta Programs in many countries?” So I asked some questions and here is an unscientific sample of what I heard on some NLPers’ beliefs about Meta Programs and the LAB Profile:

  • Meta Programs are the same thing as the LAB Profile.
  • I already studied them and know what I need to know.
  • They are just filters and who needs more filters?
  • Nice to know but there are no practical uses for them.

What!? I was shocked! And all these years I have been using the LAB Profile along with my NLP skills to create a very lucrative practice helping organizations and people.  Some Examples from my consulting business:   Assisted a manufacturer to avoid a strike and get the first 5 year contract with their union in the history of the company; Decoded specialized LAB Profile market research to develop successful advertising strategies; Transformed entire call centre representative behaviour to stop the bleeding of customers from an insurance company; Helped negotiators to increase revenue by millions of dollars by changing their behaviours with their customers. Appeared on national television using the LAB Profile to decode election strategies for the general public. In short, my NLP and LAB Profile skills have made my fee irrelevant in the market place. My customers are willing to pay whatever it costs to take advantage of the insights and skills afforded them by these skills. Perhaps the information has not been getting across to NLP-based trainers and consultants, so I would like to correct some misunderstandings.

What are the Differences between Meta Programs and the LAB Profile?

Meta Programs, originally developed by Leslie Cameron-Bandler (now Lebeau), describe what information a person takes in or gives out. Are they filtering for information, place, person, thing or activity? Do they notice sameness, similarities or contrasts? And many, many more filters. When I learned these patterns in an NLP Master Practitioner program in Paris in the 1980’s, they are rarely connected to how to detect them and what to do once you know the patterns. I did learn however that some patterns were better than others; it was better to be internal than external, better to approach than avoid etc., a belief I have since rejected. I was fascinated by the information at the time, but also thought there was nothing one could do with the information. In 1984 I translated Rodger Bailey’s LAB Profile manual into French when I working in Paris. I was immediately struck by the differences between his model and the standard NLP Meta Programs. I chose to use and develop the LAB Profile rather than any of the other psycho-metric profiling tools because of its simplicity, accuracy and usefulness. While the LAB Profile was based on the original Meta Programs and Noam Chomsky’s deletions, distortions and generalizations, only the LAB Profile consists of:

  1. A reasonable number of patterns to learn,
  2. A methodology for detecting the patterns, and
  3. A specific set of Influencing Language to match each pattern.

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Rodger had also discovered some practical applications. This was something I could actually use. At the time we included the LAB Profile in a program called “Managing High Performance Teams” and I began to explore what else could be done with it.

On top of this several people have used the LAB Profile as a research topic for their Master’s or Ph.D. theses. Several psychological profiling tools have been developed using the LAB Profile to use with individuals and teams. (See Jay Arthur’s NLP Personal Profile, Patrick Merlevede’s IWAM, Arne Maus’ Identity-Compass and Jaap Hollander’s MPA Mind-Sonar) All of this information on what uses trainers, consultants, facilitators and coaches are doing with the LAB Profile is irrelevant if people won’t give it a try for themselves. I wrote the book Words That Change Minds quite a few years ago to describe the Patterns and give information on how to use them for a few practical applications. But that was only the beginning. Since then, we have discovered many more practical applications for consultants and trainers. Imagine being able to understand, and predict people’s behaviour using a rigourous, empirical and scientific method for motivation. The LAB Profile is an exciting alternative to standard problem-solving approaches which our customers have all heard before.

But don’t believe me. Check out my books Words That Change Minds and The Customer is Bothering Me at www.theShellestore.com


ABNLP Shelle Rose Charvet LAB


Shelle is a sought after trainer in the art of influence & persuasion – specifically what motivates and demotivates people.

As a recognized world expert in the Language and Behaviour Profile or ‘LAB Profile’ Shelle trains people to recognise and use 13 distinct meta-programs categories that effect motivation and performance.

Shelle is a speaker at the ABNLP 2017 Australian NLP Conference taking place in Sydney, 25-26 February and she is also presenting her LAB Profile Practitioner Training 27-28 February.

 

The Language of the First Debate

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Borrowed from https://www.successtrategies.com
by Shelle Rose-Charvet

What is really behind the candidates’ statements in the first US Presidential debate of 2016? While analyses have been made about who won, who fell into the other’s trap etc., I was curious clinton-trump-1st-debateabout who was using which Motivation Triggers™ and how effective they were. Were they able to use words that change minds, and if so who’s?

Motivation Triggers™ describe what motivates people, how they think, how they make decisions and how they act. They show up, hidden inside the words people use, and in their behaviour.

Here are the Motivation Triggers™ that our patented software, Libretta®, scientifically measures:

Toward Motivation Trigger™

People who have a Toward Motivation Trigger™ need a goal to be motivated. They want to achieve something and focus on where they are heading.

Away From Motivation Trigger™

When people have an Away From Motivation Trigger™, they easily notice what is wrong or should be prevented and avoided. They are motivated to get away from the things that bother them.

Internal Motivation Trigger™

People who have an Internal Motivation Trigger™ decide for themselves, based on what is important to them. They tend to reject ideas when told what to do.

External Motivation Trigger™

People who have an External Motivation Trigger™ are motivated when they are appreciated, recognized and get feedback. When making decisions they are influenced by outside people or information.

Options Motivation Trigger™

People who have an Options Motivation Trigger™ love having lots of choices and alternatives. They start things and often then start another something else, instead of completing the first activity.

Procedures Motivation Trigger™

People who have a Procedures Motivation Trigger™ prefer to follow a step by step process and often believe there is a “right” way to do things. Without a procedure they may get stuck. When they start something, they are driven to finish it.

Using the transcript from the first presidential debate in 2016 I ran each candidate’s statements, topic by topic through the Libretta® analysis.

Donald Trump used mainly Away From language when he spoke about the following topics:
the economy, trade deals, government regulations and cutting taxes. He recognizes what the issues are without focusing on solutions or goals to be met.

When talking about jobs he uses Toward language mentioning that he wants to “create tremendous jobs”, but this is a relatively rare use of Toward language compared to the number of times he used Away From and Internal language.

This indicates that he is much more concerned with problems, things he does not like and the strategies that he does not approve of. The language he uses resonates with people who are angry and upset about unemployment, and economic disparity. They respond well to someone who matches their level of anger and frustration, which Donald Trump clearly does.

Hillary Clinton, in her opening statement used more Toward and Internal language, talking about what she wanted to achieve and the goals she thought were important.

When criticizing Donald Trump, she used Away From and internal language fairly consistently and, particularly when she attacked his attitudes actions and behaviors. Her main Motivation Trigger™ was Internal – speaking from her point of view about what she thought was important for the country, but not in problem terms (Away From) nor about moving toward goals (Toward).

She finished the evening with Toward and Internal language in her closing statement, again speaking to what would be important for her to achieve during her presidency.

When Hillary Clinton used Away From language it was mostly directed at Donald Trump, and only rarely directed at issues that need to be solved. For her to attract people who respond well to Away From language, she would need to express more of the outrage at the issues that are faced by Americans who have not yet decided to vote for her and talk about how people are suffering.

This is the strategy that Barack Obama used in his “yes we can” speech. With the exception of that tagline the vast majority of his speech was identified to be in away from language.

To attract some of the Donald Trump supporters or the undecided voters, Ms. Clinton might consider switching the direction of her language (she can still say the same messages) from Toward to Away From for these particular audiences. Being selective about the language patterns per audience what would help her attract some of those undecided and some of the weaker Donald Trump supporters.

Introducing LAB Profiling

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The Language and Behavioural (LAB) Profile is the work of Shelle Rose-Charvet based on NLP Meta Programs.  The LAB Profile predicts behavior based on one’s use of certain types of language patterns (which reflect the thinking styles of a person and indicates their motivation and attitude). With this information you can predict job performance, you can assign tasks efficiently, and you can influence behavior.

 

Join the Australian Board of NLP at the 2017 Australian NLP Conference with Speaker Shelle Rose Charvet on 25-26 February 2017. Also join Shelle for her LAB Profile Practitioner Certification directly after the conference.

www.abnlpevents.org.au

 

 

 

Introducing mBraining

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NLP Master Trainer Marvin Oka is one of the co-founders of a new discovery in neuro science known as mBraining.

Today we would like to share with you a short clip of Marvin talking about a simple aspect of our multiple brains.

Early Enrolment will begin 1 May 2016
We are still sourcing our venue and securing the lowest admission fee for our ABNLP members – early enrolment will start on 1 May, open enrolment will begin on 15 May.

Pre-Registration starts 1 May

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mBraining for Mindfulness

Thank you for registering your interest for the mBraining for Mindfulness workshop!

Because you have registered your interest you will receive a special invitation to register early between 1-15 May for a special tuition price. Only 50 seats will be available! 

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